Rest assured, we have the ability of being disciplined in habits but only once we‘ve surrender to them.

Part of personal growth is in the ”letting go” of an old identity, habit or belief.  This surrender allows a new one's to operate that are aligned more appropriately to the outcome.  Behind all my clients goals is an inner stuck element,  is a waiting to be freed, and a need to surrender.

We think it's a need for more discipline but we're not even there yet, imaging trying to drive a car with the handbrake on and the conflict, stress and strain thats put on the systems because of the ”holding on” element.  We try to increase the power and strain & stress to get movement, but people are living life with this situation in place in many area's of their business and life. They call it the grind, but it's hard, exhausting work  and just like a a motor with the brake on it will cause low performance, stress, conflict, failure, breakdown and  eventually long term reduction life expectancy.

It’s seen as a weakness,  they lost, surrendering to another opponent, but what if the other opponent was a more powerful habit waiting for you to adopt. Surrendering allowed it to dominate your life in a positive way,  you simply "gave in" and went to the gym, started saving, told your wife you loved her, told a partner your leaving them, asked for help or stopped beating yourself up.